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Preaparing for the big decision

Nowadays, the decision of family expansion i.e. having a baby is not an easy one especially with the so busy  life of people .Its not just a matter of 9 months of pregnancy but before and after it also  . Before pregnancy , the mental make up for the partners as the life is gonna turn around completely and after pregnancy i.e.post delivery , the increased responsibility and joining of the sleepless nights club for few years. For this both the partners have to prepare themselves mentally and physically. Mentally means the hormones play so much with you that you feel extremes of all types of feeling like extreme disappointment or sadness , happiness or joy etc etc etc . And physically for the female partner to be having so many changes in her body and mind during and post pregnancy and for the male partner to support his better half while she is going through all of it . For getting ready for becoming parents , both partners need to talk out first that about when they fe...

The thought of Gala Time!

29 jan 2019 7 AM - I was discussing with my husband about going to my friend's place but he thought I might get tired because I have little baby ( 4 months old ) so he told me to call my friend over to my place . And even told me to talk her through ,give her perks of coming to my home as she will be free and will have a gala time .Probably same would have been with me too. Well he is an MBA so their skills is little different from mine. 8.30AM - While having breakfast I WhatsApp her , giving her the perks and convincing to come to my place because I really wanted to meet her . So I did as prescribed by managerial skilled hubby. 10.00AM - Finally she replies with agreeing to come to my place. 12.00 PM - she came and I was cooking lunch for her and me and I welcomed her with all my heart. Now here starts the true story and the pain may be you can say . (wait till the end to understand the true pain story ;)  ).  She enters with her baby in her lap sleeping ...