The thought of Gala Time!
29 jan 2019
7 AM - I was discussing with my husband about going to my friend's place but he thought I might get tired because I have little baby ( 4 months old ) so he told me to call my friend over to my place . And even told me to talk her through ,give her perks of coming to my home as she will be free and will have a gala time .Probably same would have been with me too. Well he is an MBA so their skills is little different from mine.
8.30AM - While having breakfast I WhatsApp her , giving her the perks and convincing to come to my place because I really wanted to meet her . So I did as prescribed by managerial skilled hubby.
10.00AM - Finally she replies with agreeing to come to my place.
12.00 PM - she came and I was cooking lunch for her and me and I welcomed her with all my heart. Now here starts the true story and the pain may be you can say . (wait till the end to understand the true pain story ;) ).
She enters with her baby in her lap sleeping and says I wanna keep him in my "godi" coz then kids sleep longer and justified too coz we wanted to spend some time chit chatting over chai so she sat and we started chit chatting . And for info my lo-"little one " was awake but he is 4 months old so doesn't do much "shaitaani" coz he hasn't yet started crawling . Good for me !
Within an hour time her baby woke up now here starts the twist . Now we the mothers have met each other and not the friends , as we used to . Hers is an year old so he is capable of roaming around and throwing stuff and etc etc. Time passed while taking caring of babies and talking little bit with each other
2.00PM - Now its her baby's food time . Well mine is on my milk so his food time doesn't matter at all . But hers did coz she needed to cook and then went to make him eat . Now making kids eat is a toughest task , because you need to become may be a step closer to joker :D . by an hour his kid was done eating and she made him sleep too.
3.00 PM - My lo was also sleeping so finally we thought of having lunch . The much awaited time of freedom (only when kids sleep) . So I made some chapatis quickly and we sat to eat . Now certainly there has to be some twist to it . So my lo woke up while we were having lunch and trying to talk our heart little out . But he did not disturb us much just wanted little attention while lying in his carry cot. Then suddenly we felt there is something unusual about him so the thought was may be he pooped. Ok ! Okay! So now I had to finish my lunch in rush to clean him up and in all that time of rushing eating I had to talk to him too and make faces to distract him.
Ok finally potty check time , but on all that rush was waste as he did not poop . He was JUST PLAYING.…. okay okay !
4.00PM - The masseuse for my baby came and believe me she talks lot lot lot … and not to the baby but to us . So now when we thought of having some time as her lo was sleeping and mine was getting massage we thought to chat but oh she occupied us with her chat .
4.40 PM - Now her baby is awake and she needs to feed him milk . Ok … during that time we thought to share tea so I told my helping hand to make good tea for us .
5.00PM - We sat to have with the kids all awake mine having his feed and she handling hers . SO now the tea time , which at a time we used to enjoy for 30 min , shrinked to 5-10 min task as we didn't want her baby to through away stuff and play with cups and snacks.
5.15 PM - She gets a call from her husband that he is coming home early ok now she needs to go . and her son probably pooped so now its her chance of cleaning him and doing all the sishaane ka kaam so that baby does poop properly and he doesn't poop in the cab .
5.40 PM finally we hug each other saying , "It feels like we couldn't really talk properly as we wanted too " So finally we say goodbye with heavy heart with a feeling to meet soon next time and may be we can spend some real gala time .
This raised a thought in my mind really can we have a gala time with our little munchkins so soon. For that I will wait till next meet .. And you stay tuned to know if we could really have our gala time.
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